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How to Look Stylish on a Budget | Patterned Jumper, Coated Jeans, Snakeskin Boots | Burgundy, Tan, & Black

Are you a savvy shopper, or do you let your heart lead your wallet astray?

I'm very much in the former camp with the occasional dalliance in the latter one!  I love a good bargain - I mean, who doesn't, right?  And my wardrobe is stuffed to the gills with bargains I've scored over the years, and the outfit I'm wearing completely reflects that from top to toe.  Literally from the top of my head to the tips of my toes!

Everything I'm wearing I either bought in the sales or on discount.

'cough, cough', smatters small voice of reason in the corner.

Ok, ok. Correction.  Not ABSOLUTELY everything I'm wearing.  I mean, I'm obviously excluding all me undergarments in this, plus my everyday jewellery and my bag.  BUT, everything else, from my boots up to my beret was either bought as a sale bargain or bought on discount.

Stylish Look on a Budget; Faux Leather Jacket, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

I'm fortunate that I have some money to play with for my clothes budget; mostly because my work clothes cost very little, leaving more for the fun items.  I maybe buy a pair of leggings once every 6 months and never pay more than £20 per pair.  However, that doesn't mean I flash the cash around with gay abandonment.  Heavens no.  For years, during my 20's and 30's, I wasn't exactly hunting for coins down the back of the sofa, but I did have to count every penny.  I became expert at sniffing out bargains, a skill I'm still honing at 50!

Now everyone's version of what constitutes 'looking stylish on a budget' will vary hugely.  For some it will be limited to thrifting, to others having a set amount to use each month.  It may involve buying a few high end pieces every year to pair with items bought from high street chains.

You see, the tricky thing about doing this kind of post is that one person's idea of a sensible budget is another's profligacy.  It's all open to interpretation.  

There are many bloggers who dress very stylishly by only buying thrifted clothes which I find hugely admirable.  However, some people don't like thrifting.  They just don't feel comfortable at the thought of wearing someone else's clothes and I respect that.  Personally, I've never had a problem with it and over the years I have managed to buy some amazing bargains via charity shops or second hand sites.  Building a wardrobe entirely on thrifted clothes can be challenging if you're at either end of the size spectrum and as a petite, I would find it difficult.  And I'm not going to denial that I enjoy that frisson when buying new season clothes or even better, end of season clothes at rock bottom prices!

The key to this post though is showing that you can successfully build a wardrobe that reflects your style personality, without having to buy new clothes at full price.

In some ways, I'm probably a brand's worse nightmare as I rarely buy clothes full price.  I tried to think what ratio of full price to sale price it would be.

20% full price to 80% sales?     10% / 90%?

But I tired quickly, as the thought of percentages made my head hurt.  I was never very good at percentages at school.  Suffice to say the ratio is definitely a low % full price figure to a high % sale price!

And the outfit I'm wearing couldn't better reflect that if I tried!  Let's work our way up from bottom to top.

- The boots were nearly 70% off the Recommended Retail Price at a discount store.
- The coated jeans were half price in the sale.
- The gloves were bought on a 20% off promotion.
- The jumper was half price in the sale.
- The jacket was bought during a 30% off promotion.
- The scarf was bought for 5 euros from a market stall on a promotion.
- The beret was bought in the sale, can't remember for how much.
- And finally, the necklace, ring and bracelet I'm wearing were all sale items, under half price!

Not bad, huh?
Stylish Look on a Budget; Faux Leather Jacket, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

The bag is the odd one out as that was bought full price but boy has it given me a fantastic return on my investment as you've seen it worn with Tweed and Pearls and a Bomber Jacket & Leopard Print Doc Martens amongst others.

Now before anyone says 'oh bore off with ya bargains, woman', I'm not blowing 
my own trumpet and saying 'oooooh look at me and all my great buys', 
like some teenage vlogger gloating over their haul on youtube!  

Nothing could be further from the truth.  I wore this outfit two weekends ago when Tall Brown Fox and I went out to Sunday lunch and then a mooch around the little gem of a museum in East London called the Geffrye Museum.  As I was deciding what to wear for our jaunt to Hoxton, I began to realise that everything I'd picked to wear were either savvy sale triumphs or discerning discount delights, from the key pieces to the accessories.

And so the seed for a post of 'how to look stylish on a budget', was planted.

And I didn't just wear my accessories to show off my bargain buying skills but because they were necessities to wear that day!  It was one of those glorious early Spring days when ...

the light is so crisp,
the air so fresh,
the sun is so bright
but it's not quite warmed up enough to dispense with gloves or scarf!
Stylish Look on a Budget; Faux Leather Jacket, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret, teal gloves | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style
Stylish Look on a Budget; Faux Leather Jacket, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style
Stylish Look on a Budget; Faux Leather Jacket, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

How to be savvy when shopping for a bargain.

Isn't it easy to get carried away just because something is in the sale?  I think we've all been there, done that, got the t-shirt!

Not all of us have salaries that after covering bills have enough stretch left in them for endless clothes buying.  Bloggers will get given free items of clothing but to date I've chosen not to do any collaborations but that will happen when the time is right.  Everything you see has been bought with my own hard moolah, so I have to make smart choices to get the most bang for my buck!

The trick is knowing what has worked for you in the past, in case you want to buy similar items, what you already have in your wardrobe so you avoid too many duplications and knowing what gaps are in your wardrobe that could be filled. 

This outfit is the perfect example of buying clothes you 

a) specifically want
b) are in the market for if you happen to see them
c) you're not necessarily needing but are at a price that's too good to pass up.

Take the jeans.
I already own a black pair of coated jeans.  I love wearing them so I was purposely looking for a second pair but in another colour.  I veritably lusted after these waxed, petite, Brighton biker skinny jeans from Boden in this rich burgundy colour.  When they went into the sale, I gleefully swooped to buy a pair.
Stylish Look on a Budget; Warehouse Patterned Jumper, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style
Stylish Look on a Budget; Warehouse Patterned Jumper, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style
Stylish Look on a Budget; Warehouse Patterned Jumper, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style
Take the jumper.
I've been slowly upgrading my knitwear and have been keeping my eyes peeled for a light weight jumper that would transition from Winter to Spring AND be ideal for Autumn and this little number from Warehouse ticked the box.  It was in their recent Winter end of season sale and when they did an extra 20% off, bringing it down to exactly half price, I didn't hang around.

The contemporary design is so striking - almost like a modern art painting - yet it's a design that won't date. It's the kind of piece that not only works for casual wear but will look fantastic with a leather skirt, for a feminine yet sophisticated look.

And the best bit apart from the price?  The pattern is ALL over the jumper, not just on the front.  I can't tell you how irked I get when I find a jumper I like but discover the pattern is just on the front!

Stylish Look on a Budget; Warehouse Patterned Jumper, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

Take the boots.
Keen readers of my blog may remember I already own a pair of snakeskin boots.  These booties I've worn many times on the blog but which look particularly fetching from a post almost a year ago to the day: Transitioning to Spring

Transitioning to Spring: Pink Coat, Brown Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, Metallic Bag | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

So I was hardly gagging to buy another pair!  The issue of owning duplicates that I mentioned earlier.

But sometimes you have to strike when you see.  These are from Ecco, a well established Danish brand whose ankle boots can retail for 3 figures.  I spotted them in tkmaxx where the price label said RRP £135.00 but the store price was actually £49.99!

50 quid for a top notch pair of uber comfortable, leather boots!!!  

I would've been daft as Daffy Duck not to have bought them.

Stylish Look on a Budget; Warehouse Patterned Jumper, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

Take the jewellery.
My amber ring was a present from Tall Brown Fox but the arrow ring and bracelet I bought in the sale for £3 and £5 respectively, proving fun accessories don't have to cost the earth.

A little bit of bling can go a long way!

Stylish Look on a Budget; Glittery Bracelet, Arrow Ring | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

Wallis Petite Faux Leather Jacket A/W15.  This seasons Petite Grey Faux Leather Jacket or Tan Biker Jacket
Warehouse Firefly Jumper is now sold out but Warehouse Poppy Print Jumper is currently on offer
Boden Biker Skinny Jeans a few sizes left
Wallis Bracelet (old) Wallis Fabric Sparkle Bracelet
Gloves last seasons from Marks & Spencer.  Marks & Spencer Leather Gloves

Looking Stylish Footnote

Savvy buying and exerting a little patience can pay dividends and allows you to build a wardrobe that really works for your lifestyle and purse.  You don't have to buy at the start of a season, unless you really want a special item.  Take a deep breath, hold out for a while and then you are often rewarded with some great finds at half the price.  And the jacket, jumper and jeans will all be worn long past their original season is over without dating.

And all these pieces I've collected that make up this particular outfit - some new, some old - all fit seamlessly into my existing wardrobe and can be mixed and matched with other pieces.

A small budget doesn't have to be limiting.  And neither does looking stylish when you're over 50!

Stylish Look on a Budget; Warehouse Patterned Jumper, Burgundy Coated Biker Jeans, Snakeskin Boots, beret | Petite Silver Vixen, over 40 style

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We've Had A Blog Make-over | Future Plans for the Blog

Welcome to my new blog design!


Spring is decidedly here now.  It officially started last Monday and I, for one, am cock-a-hoop about it.

Why?

Because Spring is my favourite season.

It heralds new beginnings, awakenings, the rebirth of nature; so much promise on the horizon and the glorious prospect of longer days and warmer weather ahead of us.  We're all shaking off the sloth of Winter and for me, on a personal level, as some of you may know, I'm wanting to slowly emerge from the dark time of losing my Mum at the end of October, last year.  This Winter gone was certainly bleaker than any that had been before.  Of course, I'm still grieving and will be for some time.  Grief doesn't suddenly vanish with the appearance of the daffodils, however cheering their bright yellow blooms may be.  I miss Mum terribly, especially as yesterday was Mother's Day in the UK.

This Season more than the other three I feel, gives us a chance to reassess, reorganise and hopefully look forward with renewed energy.

If you've been a visitor here before, you may notice we look a little different!  We've done a Spring clean at Petite Silver Vixen.

We've a brand spanking new website design!

It's something I've wanted to do for a good few months now; since last Autumn in fact.  But with everything going on with my Dad's cancer diagnosis and then losing Mum, anything blog related was the last thing on my mind.

However, Spring seemed the perfect time for a blog make-over.  There are still a few tweaks to iron out here and there with the design, but in the main, I'm absolutely chuffed to bits with it.

How did I choose it?

Choosing a new design can be a daunting process.  I had to get it right first time because you don't really want to be chopping and changing your design.  I did quite abit a research before settling on a design from Pipdig.  I know of several bloggers who've used their designs and they have always given them the thumbs up.  My blogging pal Laurie, from Vanity and Me Style, has her template from them and said how helpful they'd been with her design.  Laurie, by her own admission is not the most tech savvy of people and I would say that I'm only slightly further up the tech ladder than her.  If Laurie was happy with them, then that was an excellent recommendation in my eyes.

They have a very varied selection of templates for both blogger and wordpress but the one design I kept coming back to was Equinox.  It's one of their most expensive templates but even at £49.00 it doesn't break the bank.  It comes with lots of features, more than some of the other designs they offer and I liked the cleanness of the design, both the screen version and the mobile version.


Thank you that man!

I can't extol the virtues of the design without also extolling the virtues of the service from Pipdig. Phil was extremely helpful and, more importantly very patient.  It can't be easy dealing with a self confessed techno-idiot and partial techno-phobe like myself but he answered every query in ways that the layman could understand.

A hearty round of applause to Phil.

Defining my Blog Personality

Along with the new template, it was also pertinent to update my colours and tag line.  Even with only 18 months of blogging under my belt, my blogging personality has evolved and sharpened just as my wardrobe has.  They needed to be brought more into sync with each other.

The header on my old design was in my favourite colour - blue.  Given half the chance, everything in my life would be blue.  But how boring would that be, living just in a world of blue!

Time for a change.  But what colour?

It was so obvious what it should be.  I mean it had been staring me in the face for quite a while, that it was about to slap me round the face with a wet fish!  In my avatar and profile photo, I'm wearing one of my favourite coloured berets; a gorgeously rich raspberry, burgundy one.  As my berets are something of a signature for me, when I looked at the photo again, it wasn't just like a light bulb going off but a ruddy great big EXPLOSION!

That's it!  There!  That's the colour!  BINGO!

In order to get the right colour - or certainly near enough to the beret in the photo - I used imagecolorpicker.com.  It's so ridiculously easy to use, even I, the techno-idiot that I am, didn't need to ask Tall Brown Fox for any help!

'And that's saying something.' says small voice of reason, taking a sly swig of vodka in the corner.

You upload the image, hover the cursor over the area you want to get your colour match and you get the HTML colour code for that pixel!

My font colours match my beret.  How brilliant is that?


Next up; my tagline

My old one was,

'Rediscovering the 80% of my wardrobe, I wore less than 20% of the time, pre blog.'

Somewhat wordy but certainly very true at the time I started blogging.  Since turning 50 last June, I had wanted a punchier tagline.  One that was short and sweet and in a sentence defined my long held attitude to life and style.  After much brain storming and running ideas past Tall Brown Fox for his opinion I chose,
'Not letting age define my life or style'

because it doesn't and it won't!

I now feel my blog is truly reflective of not just my style but my personality.

Future Blog Plans

With my new design in place, I can stride confidently forward with blog plans that have been brewing in my blog cauldron for quite a while, minus eye of newt and toe of frog!

- I'll be resuming The Seasonal Skinny Style Challenge.  I have unfinished business with this as it unfortunately got abandoned half way through the Spring Season last year.  I dislike loose threads so come April, I'll be taking up my weekly styling again to get to the finish line at the end of August.

- From April, I'll be hosting a monthly style link-up.  But it will be a link-up with a twist!  In the next week or so, I'll be announcing details of what it will be.  As a hint, there'll be a chance to participate in the link-up way beyond just linking various outfits from the previous month.

- I've a 5 part blog series planned on the Menopause.  I'm right in the throes of this currently and it's been a turbulent time to say the least.  In a series of posts, I'll explain how I'm approaching and dealing with this life-changing experience.  Sharing tips that hopefully other menopausal women will be able to use.

- New categories will be added.  In particular, look out for them under Style Ideas and Categories.  All designed to make it easier to find previous posts on specific style features or lifestyle topics.

Make-over Footnote

The whole blog make-over has been a far less stressful process than I imagined and absolutely worth every second I've spent on planning it.  And thank you for your patience as I ease myself back into the land of blogging after what has been rather a traumatic previous 5 months.

I hope you like the new layout and design.  Let me know your thoughts and comments below.

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Practical Winter Layering vs Faux Winter Styling | Slouchy Knit, Coated Jeans, Metallic Brogues | Caramel, Black & Bronze

How do you dress or layer to cope with Winter weather?


Although we're past the shortest day thank goodness, mid Winter has wrapped its icy grip well and truly around us now.  Snow fell in London last week - the first snowflakes this Winter.  I woke up on Thursday morning and our car was a delicate white, instead of its normal blue colour!

And even in France, on our New Year break it wasn't exactly warm!

Layers, layers, layers, duck down, wool, cashmere, beret, gloves and scarf; all kept me warm on a day out.



The drop in temperature these past few weeks has definitely been a challenge to find ways to do Winter layering that is realistic and contemporary whilst staying true to my style personality that likes to have fun.  Cue trawling blogs and fashion sites for outfit inspiration.

Now not everyone experiences Winter in the same way.  Winter in California sure ain't the same as Winter in Copenhagen. However, living in the UK where Winters can be very cold, I do want to see realistic winter styling that I can relate to.

I love the sage green coat over the slouchy knit.  This stylish lady looks like she can take on some snow with ease.

@wheresmydriver/instagram

Or how about a double turtleneck?  Slip a thick wool turtle over a thin striped one for a simple yet interesting look under a winter coat.  Even if you overheat once inside, you can easily take off the jumper and the striped turtle will still look stylish.


However, not all the styling I've seen has been practical or even realistic.  Lots of emails from bloglovin' have been dropping into my inbox lately with catchy titles such as

'7 Cosy outfits to stay warm this Winter'

or

'15 Layered looks to beat the Chills'

And only this afternoon another one landed exclaiming 5 Stylish Looks to Combat the Snow.

I had to chuckle as only the first photo features snow.  In the second photo the lady has bare ankles and sneakers which wouldn't combat the snow at all, none are wearing hats or gloves and three are wearing boots that would seriously slip on actual snow and ice.  And I'm not alone is thinking how silly that title is in relation to the outfits shown.  At least half the comments echo my thoughts exactly,

I've clicked through all these emails and the pages of uber fashionista bloggers and street style sites with initial excitement at the prospect of gaining inspiration and yet... and yet that initial excitement quickly, sadly turns into frustration, as all too often I'm presented with what I call 'faux winter styling'.  There are a few gems amongst them but so many of the outfits wouldn't past muster if worn in climes where Winter is experienced with a capital W!

If I see one more example of supposed winter styling of unstructured coat, shirt, distressed jeans, bare ankles and pumps I will scream more loudly and ear piercingly than a banshee!

I can't tell you how over I am at seeing faux winter styling.


Why, why, why would you wear socks with heeled summer sandals in Winter???  Someone please explain.

I dig the vinyl trousers but WTF with the sandals???


Or bare ankles in New York when there's snow on the ground?

Yes, it can still be Winter in March in New York (when this was posted) as I can very well testify. I've battled my way down 5th Avenue when the wind has been so howlingly cold in March, it's penetrated my bones and turned them to ice!

Bare ankles in minus temperatures?  No thank you.  I'll keep frostbite to polar explorers.  Wet soggy toes when it rains.  I'd rather not.  Yet both photos were recently included in round up posts showcasing Winter styles.


And here we have the classic '2 seasons in 1' outfit.

Autumn/Winter top half.  Summer bottom half.


Don't get me wrong.  I love all 3 outfits in the main.  Take the last one.  Top half is ticking all the boxes.  I love the grey cable knit sweater with the brown biker jacket and the plaid scarf tones beautifully with both.

Then we get to the lower half and the leather skinnies and I'm still going, yes, fabulous, rock that pose with the half tilt of the head and those to die for sunglasses BUT then it's

Open toed sandals???  Again?

Call me pedantic if you will, but my logic says that if it's cold enough to wear a shirt, a sweater, a leather jacket AND a scarf

it sure as heck AIN'T warm enough to be wearing open toed sandals!!!

With so much choice of funky footwear to wear with such a cool outfit, I mean let's for a second muse on how awesome some snakeskin ankle boots would've been with this ...

... Have you mused? ... Wouldn't they, right?    ... then I don't understand the sandals.

Faux winter styling.


Now before anyone says I shouldn't be bashing other bloggers, we're all in the sisterhood together, yadda yadda yadda, I get it, I really do.  However, the flip side to that is, I see nothing wrong in pointing out the faintly ridiculous or the totally unrealistic.  

I don't care that the big players have budgets waaaaay bigger than mine or that they are given an endless supply of clothes to wear on their blogs by brands beating a path to their door.  I really don't. Of course I know they're upping the ante to display a certain high fashion magazine aesthetic.  It's all about creating so called aspirational looks.  However, I do want to see outfits that I can at least relate too, that are based in some reality of the season and the urban environment I inhabit.

I live on a commuter line and when I travel into London, I don't see women on the trains sporting bare ankles, or parading tulle skirts worn with oversized jumpers that make the wearer look like a 3 year old playing dress up.

Below I'm wearing a very similar outfit to Atlantic Pacific.  And I wore this outfit last Winter, funnily enough also when visiting France in January and funnily enough also with the same pendant I'm wearing in my current outfit!  Ok, so my skinnies are coloured rather than leather but it's still a shirt, a knit, a leather jacket and a scarf; polished off with purple suede ankle boots and some snazzy polka dot gloves.

Real, practical yet stylish winter layering.



So where does all this leave my original outfit?  Had you forgotten about that whilst I went on a rant?  
Well, it came about because I WAS inspired by a practical yet stylish outfit I'd seen on a blog.
Hurrah!


In early December I read this post on High Heels in the Wilderness, by Susan, a Canadian blogger I can highly recommend, which had included this photo below.  And my eyes lit up!  

And why wouldn't they be?  This is the kind of winter layering I was after.  Cosy knit, leather trousers, shirt just peeping out below the jumper, sturdy boots.  Easy, effortless and importantly, warm looking.  


And Susan, the said Canadian blogger I can recommend, had clearly had her eyes lit up by it too.  Lit up to the extent that she styled a version of Camilla's look, using existing pieces in her wardrobe.

I love Susan's interpretation, using a silky turtleneck underneath which looks just as good as a shirt. Simple, understated, yet very stylish.


It set off a train of thought.  Just as Susan had done on seeing Camilla's outfit, I too could shop my wardrobe and put together a similar styling to wear for my Winter holiday in France later that month. No shirt underneath mine, as I didn't pack a suitable one in my suitcase - boring luggage allowances - and my jumper is more caramel in colour, and my hair isn't quite long enough to put it up in a messy bun, à la Camilla's!  You'll just have to put up with my messy, curly locks.  

My styling has my own personal twists, obviously.  This is, after all, interpretation, homage, rather than copy-catting.  I wore my labradorite pendant you saw above and instead of boots, it was the perfect opportunity to showcase a fairly recent purchase - my metallic bronze brogues.  All the better to conquer the cobbled stones of ancient hilltop villages and keep feet warm.

And then I got rather carried away and played around with slipping my faux fur gilet over the jumper that I was originally wearing as a fun, textured layer over my down jacket earlier in the day.






And I'm totally in love with my new Winter shoes.  I couldn't resist the dark burnt metallic bronze coupled with the sturdy soles to carry me forth through Winter weather.

And I've a wee wry smile on my face every time I wear them as this is the 3rd pair of brogues I now own.  I have a dapper white pair for Summer and you can read about how I bridged my brogues aversion here with my Autumnal pair.  Roll on Spring to buy another colour and I'll have a full house - one for each season!


Tu Rollneck Slouchy knit (old) seen on the blog in my Rollneck & Riding Boots post.
Wallis Petite Coated Jeans (old) ASOS Coated Jeans
New Look Teens Section Faux Fur Gilet (sold out) but similar here
Down Jacket from TKMaxx.  Similar here
xti brogues currently reduced.  Or how about these ASOS Embellished Metallic Brogues

Winter Wrapping Up Warm Footnote

Now you might say, pah, copying someone else's outfit isn't exactly original is it?  

But that would be missing the point.  I'm not trying (and neither is Susan) to copy the outfit exactly. It was a starting point. We were both tantalised enough by the original blogger's look to see if we could create something akin to it with what we already own, without making it a carbon copy.  One blogger's practical yet stylish look inspired two other bloggers. And that's what I love about blogging.

But the real beauty of this is that despite two bloggers taking a leaf out of another blogger's style book, each of our outfits still showcase our own style personalities.  Yes, the basics maybe the same - cosy knit, leather trousers/coated jeans - but even with each of us using those two basic pieces, both looks have a distinct styling.


What winter looks have inspired you?  And are you bored with seeing unrealistic, non practical, faux winter styling?

And lastly, a thank you

I wanted to thank everyone who's sent me messages, emails, and/or written comments on my previous post about my blogging break due to my Mum dying last year.  It's not even been 3 months yet.  I miss her terribly each day yet your kinds words have helped me through what continues to be a difficult time.  It's baby steps back towards blogging.  I know she would want me to continue doing activities that bring me joy.



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