NOT LETTING AGE DEFINE MY LIFE OR STYLE

The sad reason I'm on a blogging break

Where have I been?



There's been a seismic shift in my environment in more ways than I care to express.   


The landscape from my window has changed; the leaves have gone, there's a real bite in the air now.

So too has the landscape of my life changed.  It looks and feels as bleak as Winter; bleaker than most Winters, for not only have I said good bye to November and Autumn, but also to my beloved Mum.

6 weeks ago my Mum died unexpectedly.

Whilst in hospital recuperating after she had a bad fall, she had a heart attack.  They were able to get her heart beating again and she was put into an induced coma and moved into the Intensive Treatment Unit. Within a day of being there, it became apparent that there really wasn't anything more they could do for her.  The brain damage she had sustained during the heart attack was too severe.  We had to make the decision to let her go.

Although it was incredibly difficult, I was able to hold her hand, as they withdrew life support and she left this world.  

The last few weeks have been some of the longest and most traumatic of my life.  As some of you may know, my Dad has terminal cancer.  So whilst dealing with everything to do with Mum's death, we've had to watch Dad decline to the point where he no longer wants to/can get out of bed.  I don't know how long he'll be with us.


I'm facing the prospect of losing both parents within a matter of months of each other.


During his illness and looking after both parents, blogging was a necessary respite for me.  However, right now I don't have any energy or inclination to blog.  I'm going to take some more time away from the blog. I hope to return sometime in 2017, as I've loved blogging.  It could be as early as the New Year but it does depend on how the Christmas period goes, or it could be as late as the Spring; always a time for rejunevation.

Thank you to everyone who's support my wee corner of blogland and for some of you for asking how I've been recently.

I hope you all have a peaceful Christmas and New Year.

I took this photo of Mum and I holding hands last year when we went over to celebrate her birthday, never ever expecting the meaning it would hold for me today.  


Love you Mum.


Sale Bargains & Links à la Mode 6th October

Although we're well into Autumn, it seems there are still Summer sale bargains to be had if you look carefully.


The past week my inbox has been fairly deluged with emails letting me know of

30% off deals for winter coats,
20% of jeans - but quick, only if you hurrah and click today! 
and sales of up to 50% off for this, that and the kitchen sink!

Ok, maybe not for kitchen sinks.  I'm not signed up to bathroom stores newsletters!

My magpie eyes swept the goods on offer, and after tootling to one particular shop to 'try before I buy', I managed to snap up two bargains, both from Warehouse; one I had my eye on and one which was rather a pleasant surprise!  So allow me to indulge in sharing with you my two sale bargains that will keep me happy this Autumn and well beyond.

First up, a skirt that I had my eye on for sometime.  This striped jacquard print skirt is currently reduced from £45 to £20 - less than half price!  And the good news is most sizes are still available. But do let's double check with each other that if we're going to the same social 'do' together, we don't turn up looking like Tweedledum and Tweedledee, in the same skirt!

I had loved the woven jacquard bands interlaced with the coloured bands but at full price had resisted the lure of them.  But when I saw it go in the sale for only £20, I decided it would be foolish to pass it up.

With a shiny metallic top this would look lovely for a Christmas lunch party.  But equally, it's the kind of skirt that worn with sandals and a cami top, would be delightful on a Summer's day.



Next up is my 'pleasantly surprised' purchase!  Now I'm not one for dungarees.  Lots of fellow bloggers wear them and wear them stylishly well.  But they're just not for me.  However, I do like the idea of dungarees, so what's the next best alternative?

Why a dungarees dress!

In dark wash denim!

And with pockets!

I saw this Dungarees Dress on the sale rail and thought I'll give that a whirl as I've long known that you must try things on your body before deciding whether it will look good ON your body.  Well, once on, I rather liked it on my body and so off to the till it went with my skirt.  

Just shows that sometimes it's good to take a punt and try things on.  What's the worst that can happen?  It doesn't suit?  Well, just pop it back on the hanger and move on!

This was almost but not quite half price.  Reduced to £25 from £45.  For the quality it is and for those pockets, it's a steal!  Sadly online it's only available in size 6 now but I'm sure there are a few sizes in stores if you shop around.  It's not a petite but the beauty of the adjustable straps means I can alter the length to make it work so it hits just on the knee.

I've already worn it this week with mock croc slip ons and a long sleeve patterned top and when temperatures start to fall, out will come the tights and ankle boots. 


Links à la Mode


Last week I submitted a post to the weekly round up feature on Independent Fashion Bloggers, so t'was rather a lovely surprise to find out that my How to wear black and white without looking boring post was chosen.  Here's my pattern play on black and white polkadots to liven up a monochrome outfit!

Thanks to Payton Grantham for including my post in the weekly round up Links à la Mode.



On to the links...

I particularly liked The Classy Junk's post 7 Easy to Thrift Pieces for Autumn, showing that whether you buy a bargain in the sale (like me above!) or whether you thrift, there are always classic, staples you can add to your wardrobe, without having to break the bank.

All the links are below, so why not dive in and discover some new blogs!

Payton Grantham writes: Bloggers this week came strong with the black and white shirts. It got me wondering… did I miss the memo?! So many submissions shared in this go-to, timeless color combo. Plaid was also a favorite, which was inevitable as a season staple. Craving a twist? The floral situation was serious this week… maybe bloggers are making up for the fact that few will be found blossoming for months to come. Sad face.
Other trends this week include ankle boots (a must!), strappy sandals, hats, handbags, and jewel tones. Ruby, emerald, sapphire, and amethyst are all very in right now. Others refer to these as deep reds, greens, blues, and purples, but I’m going to go ahead and pretend I didn’t have to google ‘blue jewel name’ to remember what a sapphire is called.

Links à la Mode, October 6th
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Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition | Exploring Tate Modern

'Men put me down as the best woman painter…… 

I think I’m one of the best painters.'

Georgia O’Keeffe


So sayeth one of the great painters of the 20th century.  Georgia O'Keeffe was one kick ass lady! She knew she wanted to be an artist before she was 12 years old.

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition Guide, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Her first major exhibition was in New York in 1916 so it's fitting that a century later, we're celebrating her work.  Tate Modern's blockbuster of a summer exhibition brings over 100 of her paintings together, spread over 13 rooms.  And living so close to the capital as I do, I was champing at the bit to see this exhibition.

As an art lover, I of course knew about her and knew her work but until a couple of Sundays ago, I realised I only really knew a tiny fraction of her work - her famous and infamous flower paintings. I didn't know how much she railed (quite rightly) against being seen as a 'female' painter and railed even more against the misinterpretation of said flower paintings, as having sexual meaning.  I mean how reductive a view is that simply because you're looking at a flower close up?  And how insulting to the artist when the artist has clearly stated what her intention was behind her flower paintings:


'When people read erotic symbols into my paintings, 
they're really talking about their own affairs.'

That's the joy of going to exhibitions; discovering new and unexpected things, of which this exhibition delivers in spades.

But before we go on a journey through her work, allow me to take you on a pre-exhibition journey through Bankside, the area where Tate Modern is.  We decided to make a day of it starting with brunch at the Albion - part café/restaurant, part shop.

The Albion, Neo Bankside | Petite Silver Vixen

Tall Brown Fox and I shared their meat platter for two with the biggest curl of pork crackling I've ever seen perched on top! And mighty fine crackling it was too.

We munched our way through two kinds of ham, beef, chorizo, salamis, meat paté, chutney, red onions and a scotch egg. Being as much an unashamed foodie as I am culture vulture, I would've preferred a whole or at least a half scotch egg to the quarter on the platter, simply because it was so tasty and sharing a quarter between two foodies is a little fiddly!

Meat Platter at The Albion, Neo Bankside | Petite Silver Vixen

With it being a beautiful, bright sunny day, we couldn't pass on eating en plein air.  All the better to appreciate the new Tate extension, literally across the road from where we were sitting.

View of Switch House, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

The South Bank by the gallery is a far cry from what it was even 10 years ago.  Lots of expensive flats and new office buildings popping up.  I'm not so sure I'd want to live in such a fish tank.  I'm sure the views from the flats higher up are great but the downside is, your space is on show!  

I hope the teddy bear is enjoying the view!

Teddy Bear at Neo Bankside Flats | Petite Silver Vixen

It's an interesting area to wander around and you have the benefit of being either riverside or within spitting distance of the Thames. Sprinkled around the NEO Bankside development are various striking stone sculptures by Emily Young.

They certainly set the right mood for what was to come.

Emily Young Sculpture | Petite Silver Vixen

Emily Young Sculpture | Petite Silver Vixen

Fortified by our carnivore lunch, it was time to get up close and personal with the Switch House. Tate Modern was originally a power station and is now composed of two, connecting buildings, their names reflecting their industrial past.  The main gallery - the Boiler House - is the old power station which includes the vast Turbine Hall.  The new extension is the Switch House.

We purposely chose to go in through this entrance rather than the main riverside one and you certainly appreciate the pyramid design from this side.  This brick ziggurat rises 10 stories high.  The extension has been done very sympathetically and I particularly liked the external facade of the brickwork pattern.  Very in keeping with its older, neighbouring building.

View of Switch House, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

View of Switch House, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

'A once-in-a-generation chance to explore a figure entirely absent from British collections.'
Financial Times

With a review like that, you'd be foolish to miss up this chance to enjoy an artist whose body of work spanned over 7 decades.

A quick snap before we went in!

Outside Switch House, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Exhibition Tips: 

- It's worth buying the audio guide.  It's just under £5 which is on the pricey side I feel for exhibition audio guides so Tall Brown Fox and I shared one between us.  The unexpected benefit of having the guide was that you actually get to hear Georgia speak about her work from old recordings, as well as insights from the curators of the exhibition. 

- Allow about 2 hours if you really want to absorb it all at a leisurely pace. It's a popular exhibition so sometimes we had to wait a couple of minutes to be able to stand right in front of paintings we were really interested in.

- Wear comfortable shoes.  Only some of the rooms have central benches in them to sit on.

- Or opt to take one of the folding stools provided at the entrance to the exhibition.  Then you'll have your own portable seat!

I had to have a photo taken of me standing next to the exhibition poster at the entrance to the gallery. It depicts probably one of her most well known paintings - Jimson Weed/White Flower No. 1, painted in 1932.

It was completely by chance that I happened to be channeling my inner Georgia O'Keeffe by wearing colours so in tune with the poster - teal, navy - plus a floral blazer!

Petite Silver Vixen next to O'Keeffe Exhibition Poster, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

'I found I could say things with color and shapes that I couldn't say any other way - things I had no words for.'
Georgia O’Keeffe

One criticism often levelled at O'Keeffe is how photographic her work was.  Yes, she was influenced by photography - her husband, Alfred Stieglitz, was one after all.  She was also friends with Ansel Adams - another unexpected, delightful nugget I learned. Yes, a delight as he's one of my favourite photographers!  There are a few of his and Stieglitz's photographs in the exhibition, along with copies of books and a sketch book of Georgia's.  I love it when personal items are included.

Her paint is smooth and utterly flat to the canvas, unlike the oil paintings say of Dutch masters where up close, you can literally see the oils rising off the canvas in ripples.  But there is incredible depth to the paintings through perspective and use of colours.

Obviously no photography is allowed once inside the exhibition.  To give you a flavour of what we viewed, here are 2 works from the exhibition that really resonated with me.

Red and Orange Streak, 1919

By 1919 Georgia had moved from Texas to New York.  Many of her paintings from this time reflect how she wanted to try and capture some of the sights and sounds of her time from living in a place so different to the city.  She was fascinated by the spectacular Texan storms she saw, and when she went on night time walks, how noises coming out of the dark such as cattle lowing or train whistles, would apparently evoke certain shapes and colours.

Works from this period clearly show she understood and had an interest in synesthesia and in particular, chromesthesia, which is a sound-to-colour form of synesthesia.

For me, this was the most striking and breathing piece in the exhibition.


From the Lake, 1924 

Georgia and Alfred had a summer house at Lake George, in upstate New York.  As with her New York City paintings, it was clear how much she thrived not only the environment around her, but on the palette that that environment gave her.  

Georgia was a master of colour graduation.  At first glance this painting looks dark and incomprehensible.  But look closer and you'll see extraordinary shades and tones of colour that swirl, merge and seep into each other.  Grey, indigo, purple, mulberry, teal, yellow, aqua, all atmospherically indicating stormy weather over Lake George in abstract form.


Another landscape that informed her work was that of the South West.  You really can feel the expanse of the sky, the aridity of the earth and rocks.

I loved seeing her interpretations of a landscape that clearly meant so much to her but which is so unfamiliar to me.

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition Guide, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

The exhibition shop is an O'Keeffe buyers delight!

I didn't buy anything as I haven't put up yet some of the prints from the numerous other exhibitions I've been too!  But I was tempted!

Georgia O'Keeffe Prints, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition Prints, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition Prints, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition Prints, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition Prints, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen
After we'd viewed the exhibition, next stop was up, up and away! 

We could hardly make a visit to Tate Modern and not experience the 2 viewing levels.

Petite Silver Vixen standing on viewing platform, Tate Modern | Petite Silver Vixen

Especially on such a picture postcard day as this!  

Doesn't St Paul's Cathedral look magnificent, on the other side of the Thames?

View from Tate Modern across to St Paul's Cathedral | Petite Silver Vixen

I was breaking myself in gently.  Next stop was the viewing level right at the top of Switch House. 

Pluses - a 360° view of London.
Minuses - It's blinkin' high!  It's very narrow. 

Oh dear, vertigo inducing!

My odd expression is due not only to looking right into direct sunlight but also from trying not to freak out at being so near the rail, despite the fact that it's almost as tall as me!  The things I do for blogging.  

At least I got you a good snap of the Shard in the background!

Tate Modern Viewing Terrace, Shard in background  | Petite Silver Vixen

Looking much happier as I'm almost back at ground level - phew.  Soaking up the industrial grandeur of the Turbine Hall, which currently isn't housing any exhibitions.

Perfect for a spot of outfit posing, about which you can read here.

Standing in Turbine Hall, Tate Modern  | Petite Silver Vixen

Autumn Styling Boden crop trousers, M&S floral jacket | Petite Silver Vixen

Autumn Styling Boden crop trousers, M&S floral jacket | Petite Silver Vixen

There's a choice of eating places inside the Tate but as we'd passed a branch of Gail's, the Artisan Bakery, on the way to lunch (it's a couple of doors down from The Albion), we popped in there for tea and cake before wending our way home.  It would've been rude not too!

Deep in conversation with another of Emily Young's sculptures.

It's got its eye on my brown paper bag.  No wonder, it probably could smell the walnut and honey bread inside it that we bought at Gail's!  Utterly delicious toasted and smothered in butter.  The bread that is, not the sculpture.  The sculpture wouldn't fit in our toaster.

Petite Silver Vixen Next to Emily Young Sculpture | Petite Silver Vixen

O'Keeffe Footnote

Living in London, and having travelled much more in Europe than North America, I'm steeped in the history of European art and culture.  I'm less familiar with American artists, so it was visually refreshing to experience a painter who is rightly acknowledged as being one of the founding artists and exponents of modernism and abstract art in the United States.

Georgia O'Keeffe Exhibition at Tate Modern is on until 30th October.  Catch it before it closes.

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Healthy at 50 | Getting Back in the Saddle


I'm not ashamed to admit that this year my weight has crept up and I'm about 8-9 pounds heavier than I usually am and I'm certainly feeling it and I ain't happy about it.

Being short and short waisted, it feels more like 8-9 stone than pounds.  Some of my clothes now make me feel like I've been shrunk wrapped by clingfilm - a bizarre and somewhat uncomfortable feeling, not be recommended.

Why has this happened, I pondered recently?  Well, it's been a combination of things.  Not having a kitchen for nearly 2 months earlier this year meant eating properly was a challenge and we also had a total, unashamed blow out on holiday in Copenhagen at the end of May.  My stress levels have increased undoubtedly, especially recently with my parents having so many health concerns and stress has a HUGE impact on weight.

On top of that, this year the menopause has kicked in, bringing with it the delights of increased appetite, a slower metabolism and joy of joys, a thickening waist.  It's a bastard that menopause!

And it doesn't help that I love food; 'foodie' is stamped throughout my DNA!

Many women hitting 50 find their weight quietly increases and it's often due to a number of factors some of which are menopause related, some not.

And I think it's fair to say, that this is definitely the case with me.

But Petite Vix, surely as a Pilates teacher you're fit and you must work out?  Well yes, I do! The irony is though, as many fitness / movement professionals will tell, is that you spend so much time teaching other people to stay fit and well, you don't have quite as much time to do it for yourself!

It's not as if I'm unfit - far from it and I am strong.  I wouldn't have been able to pass my studio Pilates certificate 18 months ago if I wasn't!  I had to be strong to be able to demonstrate the advance repertoire on the apparatus.  But if I want to get back to where I was 18 months ago a few things need to change.

I need to eat better and healthier and move more 
are certainly two.

The question is, how am I going to achieve this?

I'm not remotely interested in fad diets or extreme fitness plans.
I'm not remotely interested in joining a gym.

Do you find that last one shocking coming from someone who works in the fitness industry?

You see I'm not a gym bunny - never have been, never will be.  They're just not the right environment for me. I hate the loud music, I don't enjoy using gym equipment.

I'd rather do an hour's dance class than do a 30 minute workout at the gym.
I'd rather do a 3 hour cycle ride in the fresh air, even in the rain and cold than do a 30 minute workout at the gym.
I'd rather do a 2 hour kick ass Reformer class with one of my Pilates mentors than do a 30 minute workout at the gym.
I'd rather do anything than do a 30 minute workout at the gym!

I think you're getting the picture, right?

The key is to do physical activities you enjoy.  

I mean if you hate the gym, what's the point of joining one?  You'll only set yourself up to fail.  

But I do enjoy being on two wheels.  In fact I'm very happy on two wheels.  Far happier than running on two feet - unless it's running for a bus, or a train, or running away from a woolly mammoth, then it's just about bearable and necessary to do.

A few years ago, Tall Brown Fox and I went on a cycling holiday in Provence.  I conquered many hills.  It's far hillier in the South of France than you can imagine.


And here I am cycling across Sydney Harbour Bridge on my honeymoon.  Yes, indeed, hold onto your helmets; it was buttock clenchingly HIGH up there!  

And I'm not good with heights, even on a bridge with high fencing and barbed wire on the top.  But I conquered it.


Tall Brown Fox and I realised that the last time we did any kind of cycling was on holiday last May - I mean LAST MAY for pity's sake!  That's far, far, far too long.  Did I say far, far, far too long? Good, because that's really far, far, far too long!

We visited Ile de Porquerolles, off the coast of the South of France.  We hired bikes for the day and zoomed around every nook and cranny of the island, finding wonderful coves, small beaches and stunning views.

Sadly, none of the boats behind me are mine.


Clearly, I needed to get back on me bike.  Pump the heart, move my legs.  With that in mind, Tall Brown Fox and I decided to get on both our bikes, get back in the saddle!

Time for a bike ride at the weekend and that's just what we did.

A little bike maintenance was required before we started.  Never a bad idea to check your brakes and as Tall Brown Fox had put new tyres on for me the day before, we wanted to make sure everything worked smoothly.



I put my new gel saddle cover on for extra comfort which I prophetically bought a couple of weeks ago for a bargain.  Although it's been a while, I can still remember what it feels like to be saddle sore!

It's not pleasant!


I put on my cycling shorts which hurrah, hurrah still fitted me!

Lots of handy pockets for bike lock keys, front door keys, phone and some cash.



Helmet on,
Cycle gloves on,
Sunnies on and 
We were ready to RIDE!


We did a 20 minute ride to a big, local park, did a few laps around the park, dodged kids on scooters, dodged toddlers on tricycles, dodged runners panting and running dogs yapping.

No man, child or beast was injured in this bike ride.

We had a pit stop for a cup of tea and then it was back on the bikes for the 20 minute ride home.


And the benefits of getting the wheels out, beyond exercising for my physical health, were many and not just confined to

absorbing the wonderful views across parkland,
breathing in fresh air,
appreciating a big blue sky above you,
feeling the wind in your hair and on your skin,
revelling in the sense of freedom.


And more often than not, you stumble across interesting sights such as this fungi covered tree trunk. 
 

Back home after our ride.  Feeling VICTORIOUS!

Endorphins racing around my body faster than Mo Farrah in his sprint finish to win the 10k gold in Rio.

You may now play me the British National Anthem.


Back in the Saddle Footnote

I've always been an active person, even when I was a kid when I swam like a fish, pirouetted like a mini Margot Fonteyn in ballet lessons and tapped like a female Fred Astaire in tap class.  I climbed trees, spent hours kicking a football around with my siblings, zoomed around the neighbour on my bike and the only time I really sat down was either to read or eat!

I'm a huge believer in exercise being fun.  
Because the likelihood of you sticking at it go through the roof.  Statistical fact!
And you don't have to take part in conventional exercise either!

Of course, one bike ride ain't gonna change the world or my shape, and losing weight is more about diet (please note, NOT dieting) than exercise but getting my cycling mojo back is going to help, plus it'll keep my heart healthy and boost my mental well being.  Win, win, I say.

Although I won't be entering the Tour de France any time soon - besides yellow isn't necessarily a great colour on me - I'll definitely be spinning my wheels again on a regular basis!

Are you going to get on your bike - real or metaphorical?  What exercise keeps you moving and happy???

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Happy Feet & Links à la Mode 11th August

Sometimes a pair of shoes can take you further in more ways than just literal steps!

It's been something of a week of feet and statement shoes.  Plus with the Olympics 2016 in Rio well underway now, I'm giving myself a blogging gold medal.  Why?  Well, I attained my goal of blogging every day last week!

Monday saw me showcase a fierce pair of snakeskin, 3 bar shoes.



It was white brogues on Tuesday.


On Thursday I stepped into some snazzy navy sandals.



And today I finally got round to trying out a nail colour other than hot pink for my tootsies!

What do you think?  I rather like it.


And if you follow me on Instagram you may have seen me in my fetching camo trainers, as I took my feet out for a Sunday afternoon spin on the bike.

My ride wasn't quite as fast and furious as our World Record breaking Team GB Women's Team Pursuit Cyclists.  Congrats to Katie Archibald, Elinor Barker, Joanna Rowsell-Shand and Laura Trott for winning gold!


It's been a couple of months since I submitted a post to the weekly round up feature on Independent Fashion Bloggers, so I was doing a fair old jig on Thursday when my Mixing Snakeskin and Lace post was chosen, showcasing my new fierce yet feminine snakeskin shoes.

Thanks to Lisa Walker for including my post in the weekly round up Links à la Mode.


On to the links...

I particularly liked We Are Ready Made's post on the exhibition at Moderna Museet, not least because it's in a city I've visited and loved - Stockholm.

There's amazing photography in the post: do check it out, especially if like me you LOVE polka dots.  You'll be in for a treat!

All the links are below, so why not dive in and discover some new blogs!


Lisa Walker writes: For those of you who thumb your nose at the traditional vacation seasons, check out posts on traveling to Stockholm and Japan, or if you can travel soon, you can see Japanese art in Stockholm. I love a good two for one. And this week’s round up would not be complete if it didn’t include at least one Olympic post, and it is so right on about the fashion too.
Links à la Mode, August 11th
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